Tuesday, March 26, 2013

The coming-of-age Mom


Babies can be inspiring.

We look up to our elders,teachers,quote dot com and neighbourhood chacha for guidance and seldom apply it. Watch babies and relish in the simplicity of what you can learn from them.

Me and hubby,the brand new parents,recently went on a spending spree and first got a JCB to plow a hole a field in our pockets. Which resulted in a lot of toys,branded baby clothes,baby bags and did you know you get a feel-good-factor when your tot pees on branded mat too?

So after we redid our room so that it looked like a mini kindergarten, I made sure my little angel would play with the toys,run around the yellow-red room ,I can continue to facebook and that in his smiles I will get the ROI of whatever we spent. #Materialistic mother

However,after some days when the trailor wore off and I realized I will not make it to the Oscars for Best Mom-for-increasing-sales-of-MadeInChina-Fisher toys, I was mildly confused. The eternal question haunting moms since the stone age- why do they keep crying?

It's like a stone age itself to understand why. Comes not with books on babies or 10-ways-to-be-a-superb mom dot com.

It takes just an empty earring box or the lid of the old oats tin to make them happy. They are not impressed by your branded Fisher toy or the softest of fabric which covers them. It doesn’t matter if you have spend thousands on a cradle for them and what?!.... they are not going to sweet slumber on it. Materialism is far from the simple mind of a baby. Brands,tags,price lists,currencies,packaging and the crap with which our decisions are guided are like a whiff of air for them. Pooof!.... and gone!

All they need is you. Your time and attention. Undivided. So I’m logging off now!


Pic courtesy - www.zazzle.com

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